with my friend David. Good people to times when the height of happiness is to drink a beer with lemonade and chop some peanuts.
Always remember that your dignity and value no material comes from all around you or the beauty you have. Or how high you arrive in your career. Come from your ability to improve the world. Make it more beautiful, more caring. This may be the best sentence I've written in my career.
I met women - men not one - they reach 50 and still struggling with the color of his hair, with the shapes of their bodies, with their legs, with his chest, his nose, his eyes, his own temperament,
"if different" - sigh, my life would be so easy and wonderful ...
A spectacular physical help, a nice as well but what if nature has made us normalitos, fat, short, with large proboscis or bandy legs? Are we going to put the burka that society condemns us to please I do not know who? Servant no, that was not a struggle for the rights of women, we are now wrecking unbearable heels, size 38 by decree law and if I see a crease I faint. The choice is very free, but that's not my business.
For this trap I do not pass, though I spent years ago. Low self-esteem is a chestnut, I would say my friend the architect Alfonso Diaz. For a tall and thin are more likely to be set at it the opposite sex - or the one you like, Cone - and find a better job, according to all indicators.
And although the interior is important, because if, but good.
helps me. Maturity, have your feet on the ground. See beautiful women still meet the traditional standards of beauty. Women full of courage and love. As Asun, Alba Centre. Or Mars and Yulene, who also work there. As Margaret, who works at the Municipal Housing and I think pretty, pretty, beautiful. It helped me see how care for women in a state of social exclusion. Without food, without shelter, without a shower. That is essential. What they are going to import a wrinkle if they were crazy to help so many people? For example.
And there are people so beautiful, so beautiful that it seems incredible to ignore. People also know that despite complying with these "rules" of weight, height, hair of gold, pearly teeth, ruby \u200b\u200blips seem ugly as hell. When you strip their forked tongue, laugh at others, put Poison to face, and his only topic of conversation is five grams modelazo and I left over at the waist nonexistent Michelin face only subjects or "subject" to contributed genes beauty but little sense. As to his ball.
Of course not all women have self esteem issues and I personally admire very much to those who have always been happy with their looks and talents. Above all, I admire the self-esteem of those who walk with a confidence that there is nothing false consciousness as it arises from knowing absolutely unique and unrepeatable. For example, my friend Irene Carmen. It's incredible. It has an awesome power, a good person and good friend and I find beautiful in that height, green eyes and curly black hair. Or Cristina Beltran, Bajic and gordica but have you set eyes more beautiful, full of sparks and fireworks? Does your way of walking and moving, determined and always graceful? "In the eighties with estilazo own that dress and shoes? And is that the good qualities we also build physical cincelazos of life. Susana Aperte, I have not seen a woman more beautiful in life.
What we need most at this time of crisis, not only economic but of human values, is an encounter with love and tender feelings towards one's own personal and beauty to our gifts, our strengths, to live happy being like you and say goodbye to the fears and complexes. And I put on women's low self-esteem because they say that preys on women of all cultural and social constraints that we have lived. Be true.
Each person has had or will have a painful experience in past or future, but through them as personality develops. Always remember that your dignity and value no material comes from all around you or the beauty you have. Or how high you arrive in your career. Come from your ability to improve the world. Make it more beautiful, more caring.
TO STRENGTHEN THE SELF Volume
some tips (and others give them back) of the psychologist-Morataya Sheila Fleishman,
1. Is not you laugh from your own mistakes? Learn how to do and see to feel free.
2. It's good to be surrounded by people who appreciate and respect you, but if you do not not think it diminishes your value. And guys, that always stays the way people who were not your height or you to theirs. If you have friends toxic, fast salt that circle.
3. Your body is the instrument for action. Respect it and guard it.
4. Love who you to give it away without complexes.
5. The first responsibility of human beings, expressing Henry Winkler is him shaking hands same. Do .
6 - Love deeply your unique identity.
7 - Your true beauty will be revealed when you love with a woman sincerity in you , and contribute your life to healing the world.
8 .- Never think that your value lies in your beauty or titles. If you have lost your job does not let you feel that you are a loser. Working in emotionally recover soon and go ahead .
9 - Do not waste your time wondering if you are good enough for this or that task. Do the best you can do and feel satisfied ...
10 - The thought that makes you think you can not pass a subject, learning an instrument or to conquer a dance step, Take him out!
11 - If you had a traumatic experience of a girl who left you with the assurance of being ugly, fat, or unwise, identifies that bothers you and works ; diligently to heal your trauma .
12 - If your workplace annoy you for some why not let weeds born of insecurity. Shows its teeth - smile, ;-) I mean - and do not let you eat the jar of morons.
13 - If you want a better job in your work and to receive no-show because they feel you can be elected, realize that you block yourself.
14 - If you went to a job interview and not got not think it's the end of the world. Recreate in your mind the process and discover which could have been your fault if there was anyone that can overcome or amend. If you're like me, do not present the evidence of mannequins at Cibeles. Format if you have problems to find a job and uses specialized entities it.
15 - Understand that failure is a bitch, but without it you would not know what the victory. (This does not convince me or pinch).
16 - If you criticize, if you say you're a bad person and you veto of friends and work ... come, cry a while and then back up. The worst thing is that you feel to know that you're okay.
17 - If you've identified that inhibits or retracted in various social situations, Challenge yourself to behave in the opposite way.
18 - not fear changes, confident that they will always be to benefit the development of your personality.
19 - starts to look a little more your own accomplishments.
20 - If you think that luck is on your side because you had a painful childhood, it's time of being overtaken. The strength of the human spirit can do anything.
21. If you believe in God, you think he has done give the miracle of life. And if not you, think you've come to this world to be happy and make others happy.
22 - When you do something wrong does not insult yourself with terms such as stupid or useless. The unconscious has an enormous capacity to be believed.
23 - If the guy you like not notice you do not think that is because you are not attractive enough. He lost the baby ...
24 - If you mother, your daughter will learn to interact according to what you see on your own development.
25 - esteem is unconditional love. Your children to be witness.
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